Sheldonized me

Since we are an LDM couple..

*I feel sick everytime I have to mention this to people. Kesimpulannye..we have never been a normal couple. Our no. 1 enemy for the whole decade together was and is ..the distance*

Anyway, back to the topic,

since we are an LDM couple, we really value our quality time together. Until today, we are probably one of the most annoying couple for people around us. haha.

Yea..like those newly married kind of annoying :p 

To add to our miserableness, we both are currently working/studying in Japan. One of the country with very few numbers of public holiday. I think it is because of their fondness to their jobs, making them okay with their cuti system. 

Being a typical Malaysian, I had a hard time accepting the fact in the beginning (lol xp) especially when I was already in LDM. 

Usually, it'll be me going to him once every month for one weekend. You read it right. One weekend. 

Why me? Because I'm the student, so, I still have the privilege to 'ponteng' without hurting the pay. Also, I don't have reputation to care. I think you understand what I'm sayin'.

So, one weekend is definitely not enough to feel sick of each other. haha.

That's why we like to jalan-jalan. The two of us travelling together, the best way to spend quality time. Don't you think so?

Sebenarnye, I had once told him, I hate travelling, I hate leaving KL. I can't even imagine myself living in other states! Where is their MidValley *_*

Then he said he will change me once I married him.

And..right now, I have a list of places I'd like to visit. 

I am so crazy of the ideas of travelling around the world. He made me forget about all the fancy handbags, shoes that I had once fond for. Seriously, travelling is now my no.1 interest. 

Don't you think going places is a better investment than a gold-priced handbag? 

Since he opened my eyes on this matter, I have always tell people around me to go somewhere, experience different things, culture, and the most important to see Allah s.w.t 's creation for us. That is also our responsibilities. It'll make you a better muslim. It'll make you more humble of yourself.

In addition to that, husband also taught me, the best thing to bring back after every visits are memories.

I learnt it the hard way. Just recently I embraced it. So, a good quality camera is all that matters. haha..also, your most expensive accessory; i.e. your loved ones :') 

Anyway, golden week is approaching. Kind of most awaited holiday season for Japanese. At this time, usually tickets will be multiple in price, and the roads will be in total congestions. Common scene lah kan?

I can't tell you how many times I asked him to decide on where to go. 

 I always like the idea of going to Tokyo. That's the only time I can have a decent wardrobe shopping. Tokyo hold many western's branded shop which are relatively cheaper than those of Japanese brands. Unfortunately, in Hiroshima city, there aren't many western's branded shop. Hence..

The last thing I could suggest is..wherever that's involved air travelling. The prices are just absurd. 

Actually, I have prepared a list of places for us to go. Not far la..I did researches, put on the proposals. 

Beliau?blergh...showed no interest at all. But he kept telling me..continue my research. Other places please..

Even though I like doing research for this, but if you kept being rejected..you will feel annoyed and came to the easiest idea; Tokyo! 

As I have already set in my mind, I'm gonna be in Tokyo in this coming golden week (prepared with long tentative)..

last week, he called me from Korea 

"Nak pergi ***** tak Golden week nanti?"

*The place had never came across, never been discussed!It wasn't in my proposals before >,<

I was holding my notebook which is full with scribble of 'yet to do in Tokyo'. 

My reaction?? 

It was exactly like Sheldon's ...

Congratulations Dr. Kong!

He was the one who taught me to ride bicycle more than 2 years ago.

Yea..I only know how to ride a bicycle at the age of 25 T_T

It was so easy!I could ride in 30 minutes! Pity him has to teach a big girl ride a bicycle.

We siap kene chased dengan anjing -__-" Because I was so loud during the lesson probably. The dog had probably feel really really annoyed with my voice >,<

Anyway, Mr. Kong has just graduated. He is now Dr. Kong lah kan :')

He is now appointed as assistant professor in here. A Malaysian.

We are proud of him.

Here's the thing we did to celebrate his big achievement.

We had really good time, picnicking by the river. The ambiance was just right.

The music by the street musicians, the spot we had. Actually, just next to us, down the stairs there was a pair of husband and wife practising on their ukulele  We just had fun talking while they were playing! What a perfect scene! I secretly wished I was picnicking with hubby instead:') Totally miss him.

As you can see in the video, it is sakura season.

Unfortunately, last weekend, it wasn't yet mangkai (full bloom).

Maybe this weekend would be the peak. 

Nevertheless, Hiroshima is all season, beautiful:)

Dear now-Dr. Kong;

All the best in your future undertakings!

Tunggu sekejap..

Another reason I don't favour husband's posting overseas is..

he will tend to get stress coz the workloads are usually triple in amount.

The aftermath, the time he'll have for me will be limited, and..I don't have the privilege to complaint..

cause..sebaik sahaja we start skyping..he'll go first telling me about how terrible his day was, 

giving hint that my nagging which is about to start..has to be put on hold, or just cancel if I plan of doing it.

And the rest of the night, I have to tenung wajah kesayangan hamba yang berkerut buat kerja.

I know he is not happy with the workloads too, what can a wife do?

Although my angin lintang is especially strong during his long absence, I can't release the kraken la..

I have to be all sweet and supportive ok? We have to not make things worst.

But, I'm not all the time angelic.

Although I will be all nice, and patience on the weekdays, but I expect him to repay my 'kindness' on the weekend, I know he will have a day break. hewhew..

But this time was different. Maybe because he has to go alone this time, 

so, every work he has to do by himself. 

He also working on that Sunday, the day I woke up, expecting a full time husband...

despite of him just stay in my monitor T_T

So, he woke me up, so cheerful and..said.."I've some work to do."

So, I told myself, it's ok, i've been waiting for days, it wouldn't hurt to wait 1 or 2 hours..

2 hours passed

He was still berkerutan..

I fell asleep..

I woke up...

He went out for lunch..

I wait again..

He's back!

"I have to finish this a little bit more..ok?"

"Ok."

I fell asleep again.

I woke up..he's still in front of monitor.

I reach out for a pack of chocolate (they are just everywhere around me) and said..

"I nak merajuk la" with eyes half opened munching on the white day's chocolate.
And I meant it.

He answered, "Tunggu jap. Jangan merajuk dulu" "Jap jap.."Kejap...seminit.." "Ok..sikit lagi."

And that time I was a little mamai..and when he said tunggu sekejap, jangan merajuk lagi..

I was stunned (I remember, my action was literally stop when he said it).
It's like I just obey and nod??

I can't believe myself..I was like being hypnotized!
 How he did this to me?

Is it because..he's actually a French?