I think I got food poisoning kot. I am feeling nausea since morning. In fact I dreamed about having nausea and bloated. I cannot think of food right now or I'm gonna throw up.
Oh, no...it's not the baby YET.hehe..
I mmg cannot eat junkfood yg byk n also junkdrink=p Lol!!But I was so stubborn and I ate those for my supper. Quite a lot..cz FYI, japanese junkfood sgt2 oiiishiii (sedap). n also the drink. I am kinda of addicted to it T-T..
The good side of me feeling nausea rite now is..I'm gona stop feeling addictive as this nausea is so x bes T_T
*excuse me..I'm going to throw up*
Ok, let's begin with the topic.
Will you guys do merenjis in ur ceremony??
At first, I refused to do so. Because..a lot of my friend said it is against Islam. I kept in my heart all the way that I won't be having merenjis ceremony. And I know my mom will no be agreed to my idea.
I talked to my mom about this.
She said, she wants to do it even though I refused. She said, the most important is our niat.
She also said, if we think of imitating other religion from the start, thats where will get the sin.
So, I agreed.
As my friends know me. I am a person who is not really warak (in apperance I must say..cz I wouldn't tell how warak my inside is).
However, I tried to do as much as I cud to not neglect any of my duties towards Allah s.w.t.
Especially when it comes to my wedding day. I don't want the start of my new journey to be full of faults.
I did googling about this topic.
One of the answer that helps clearing my mind was from here which says..
Photos of us during merenjis. I found it fun. I wud consider this one of the way we meet each other's family members one to one.hehe..And they usually wished us personally during merenjis tu.
Oh, my merenjis only contained bunga rampai and air mawar (tipu punye). Cz my mom wanted to minimize the imitation to other culture. Thank you mom!;)
Ok, end of this heavy topic.
Anyways, you guys are still free to state ur own opinion as I consider this is a sensitive issue.
Ex-b2b with sensitive stomah,